"If You Do Then We Do One of the most important things is that men don’t realize that once you start taking us for granted and we notice that, we tend to lose that chemistry we once felt for you, we begin to build that wall around our heart, our personality begins to change slowly, trust, security and communication becomes an issue, all because we have the feeling that you are no longer interested in us or you may soon break our heart or that you just don’t want to make an effort because maybe we are not worth it anymore. These feelings can be all false, but it’s just what our heart feels because we noticed that you just don’t make an effort to do the things you used to do for us. In order for a woman to perform her duties as a girlfriend or a wife, you as the Man must do the things that it takes to keep a smile on our face. If you continue to flatter us, it will always want to make us do more for you, we will most likely do the things you love the most. Its a win win, if you take care of us…" "People equate sexy with promiscuous. They think that because I'm shaped this way, I must be scandalous -- like running around and bringing men into my hotel room. But it's just the opposite." -Jennifer Lopez "There is nothing new except what has been forgotten" -Marie Antoinette "Relationships last long not because they're destined to last long. Relationships last long because two brave people made a choice- to keep it, fight for it, and to work for it. Meanwhile, other relationships fail not because they're destined to fail. They fail because one of the two, or both, made the choice- to set each other free." ~ Unknown "People say you don't know what you've got till it's gone. Truth is, you knew what you had, you just never thought you'd lose it." ~ Unknown "Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience." ~Victoria Holt “A loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself -- to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart.” ~ Leo F. Buscaglia "It's like screamin, but no1 can hear. You almost feel ashamed, that someone could be that important, that without them you feel like nothing. No1 can ever understand how much it hurts. You feel hopeless, like nothing can save you. And when it's over, and it's all gone; you almost wish you could have all the bad stuff back so that you can have the good." "Some women follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams, if you're wondering which way to go, remember that you're career will never wake up and tell you that it doesn't love you anymore"-Lady Gaga "You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship to the self. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, you are the only one you will never lose." "I'm a box full of surprises and my beauty is just the greeting card!"