"from birth each of us sets out to discover who we really are. but when trauma occurs we create ways to survive. often we split into pieces and abandon the most vulnerable parts of ourselves, boxing them up and tossing them away. later we spend our lives looking for these parcels hoping to meet someone who can help us find these lost splintered pieces of ourselves" -Psych, TV Show "Angel: This is a curve ball for me, I mean we are talking about Spike here. Buffy: It's different. He's different. He has a soul now. Angel: Oh. Well... Buffy: What? Angel: That's great. Everyone has a soul now. Buffy: He'll make a difference. Angel: You know, I started it. The whole having a soul...Before it was all the cool new thing. Buffy: Oh my god, are you 12? Angel: I'm getting the brush off for Captain Peroxide. It doesn't necessarily bring out the champion in me. " -Only Buffy fans will get this :] "dont make decisions when you're angry and dont make promises when you're happy" "worrying is like a rocking chair, it gives you something to do but it never gets you _anywhere_" "you are who you are when no one is looking." Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened. - Dr. Seuss There is a time for everything, a time to tear down and a time to build, a time to mourn and a time to dance, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace.