To me, life isn't a dream or a game. It's very practical, I think. I always remember what Tom Hanks said to Matt Demon in the last scene of the movie "Saving Private Ryan". "Earn it!" I would like to have a dear companion who is willing to "earn it" together with me for the rest of my lives and many dear friends who are willing to 'earn it' with me no matter in happiness or sadness.