Ksenija Dumic


You cant get medicine from the ppl giving you the sickness... you'll never get better. Imitation is suicide.Be YOUnique.Be YOUrself always, there's no one better False friends are worse than open enemies. "Nikada ne pružaj ruku tako daleko da je ne možeš povući." - Žan Žak Ruso "The best is yet to be." - Robert Browning you would be in great shape if you ran just like your mouth. HATERS = GRAVITY! When I'm trying to fly, they insist on holding me down. IF HATE WAS A JOB MOST PEOPLE BE HIRED ON DA SPOT People too weak to follow their own dreams will always find a way to discourage yours. I can accept failure, everyone fails at something. But I can't accept not trying. -Michael Jordan how u treat other people is a reflection of how u feel inside. "nothing in the world is more dangerous than sincere ignorance and conscientious stupidity." Martin Luther King Jr. day without laughter is a day wasted. ~ charlie chaplin. Life is a ticket to the greatest show on earth. If You Drink Don't Park, Accidents Cause People I believe in karma, it's a bigger bitch than I will ever be. When you feel like you're at the bottom, remember that there is nowhere else to go but up. Remember if you dont pray today, then you have not spoken to anyone that really cares...... Beauty without intelligence is a Masterpiece painted on a napkin. i'm crazy but you like it. When nothing goes right, go left........... my names in your mouth, but to me, you're nothing. so be a good whore and go suck something. talk shit get hit... I never get jealous when I see my ex with someone else, because my parents always taught me to give my used toys to the less fortunate. Wanting to be someone you're not is a waste of the person you are. The world is full of cactus, but we don't have to sit on it. -Will Foley This is my cup of care \_/. Oh look, it's empty. u can tell how high a society is by how much of its garbage is recycled. —Dhyani Ywahoo “America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves.” ~ Abraham Lincoln "It was all a dream, I used to read Word Up magazine Salt'n'Pepa and Heavy D up in the limousine Hangin' pictures on my wall Every Saturday Rap Attack, Mr. Magic, Marley Marl I let my tape rock 'til my tape popped..." Freedom is not the absence of commitments, but the ability to commit myself to fulfill my dreams. I kad si sam,muzika je tu If you’re going through hell, keep going. In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different. When people hurt you over and over, just think of them like a piece of sandpaper. They may scratch you and hurt you for a little bit, but in the end, you'd end up polished and they'd be useless. Breaking up is like…moving. You can’t just take all the boxes with you at once, or you’d just hurt yourself struggling Whatever's Arising.. Accept.. Embrace.. Integrate.. Evolve.. Give Thanks.. Repeat Izvalio sam sve, sad nema problema samo pojacan je gard i uzmi sta ti treba... nekad raj, nekada bol nekada visoko a nekad dno nemam vremena da pitam zasto... There is no path to happiness: happiness is the path. One who damages the character of another damages his own. (Yoruba) To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment. You really have no control over 10% of what happens in your life. The other 90% is determined by your reaction. Haters don't really hate u, they hate themselves. U are a reflection of what they wish to be. If you do good, people may accuse you of selfish motives. Do good anyway. .Hang with people who lift u up. Separate from those who take u down. “Freedom isn’t worth having if it doesn’t involve the freedom to make mistakes.” -Mahatma Gandhi Truth is on the side of the oppressed. - Malcolm X You can't separate peace from freedom because no one can be at peace unless he has his freedom. (Malcolm X) If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything. (Malcolm X) Life is like a rainbow: You need both the sun and the rain to make its colors appear. "Life is a theater...invite your audience carefully! Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives." If you wanna get somewhere in life fast, go alone. But if you wanna get far, you need someone by your side. You only have control over 3 things in your life. The thoughts you think, the images you visualize, and the actions you take. Nothing to do,nothing to force,nothing to want--and everything happens by itself. Lama Gendun Rinpoche Oh you modelin? (knock yourself out) Wanna let ya hair down? (knock yourself out) Oh you ready to move? (knock yourself out) Whatchu wanna sit in the Coupe? (knock yourself out) Wanna keep on dancin? (knock yourself out) Wanna run in my mansion? (knock yourself out) Sit in V.I.P.? (knock yourself out) Bitch you just wanna be seen (knock yourself out) “Your worst enemy cannot harm you as much as your thought unguarded” — The Buddha "Happiness or sorrow- whatever befalls you, walk on untouched, unattached." Buddha Letting Go of Attachment, from A to ZenShare Today at 5:04pm “Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities.” ~Dalai Lama If there’s one thing we all have in common it’s that we want to feel happy; and on the other side of that coin, we want to avoid hurting. Yet we consistently put ourselves in situations that set us up for pain. We pin our happiness to people, circumstances, and things and hold onto them for dear life. We stress about the possibility of losing them when something seems amiss. Then we melt into grief when something changes—a lay off, a break up, a transfer. We attach to feelings as if they define us, and ironically, not just positive ones. If you’ve wallowed in regret or disappointment for years, it can seem safe and even comforting to suffer. In trying to hold on to what’s familiar, we limit our ability to experience joy in the present. A moment can’t possibly radiate fully when you’re suffocating it in fear. When you stop trying to grasp, own, and control the world around you, you give it the freedom to fulfill you without the power to destroy you. That’s why letting go is so important: letting go is letting happiness in. It’s no simple undertaking to let go of attachment—not a one-time decision, like pulling off a band-aid. Instead, it’s a day-to-day, moment-to-moment commitment that involves changing the way you experience and interact with everything you instinctively want to grasp. The best approach is to start simple, at the beginning, and work your way to Zen. Experiencing Without Attachment Accept the moment for what it is. Don’t try to turn it into yesterday; that moment’s gone. Don’t plot about how you can make the moment last forever. Just seep into the moment and enjoy it because it will eventually pass. Nothing is permanent. Fighting that reality will only cause you pain. Believe now is enough. It’s true—tomorrow may not look the same as today, no matter how much you try to control it. A relationship might end. You might have to move. You’ll deal with those moments when they come. All you need right now is to appreciate and enjoy what you have. It’s enough. Call yourself out. Learn what it looks like to grasp at people, things, or circumstances so you can redirect your thoughts when they veer toward attachment. When you dwell on keeping, controlling, manipulating, or losing something instead of simply experiencing it. Define yourself in fluid terms. We are all constantly evolving and growing. Define yourself in terms that can withstand change. Defining yourself by possessions, roles, and relationships breeds attachment because loss entails losing not just what you have, but also who you are. Enjoy now fully. No matter how much time you have in an experience or with someone you love, it will never feel like enough. So don’t think about it in terms of quantity—aim for quality, instead. Attach to the idea of living well moment-to-moment. That’s an attachment that can do you no harm. Letting Go of Attachment to People Friend yourself. It will be harder to let people go when necessary if you depend on them for your sense of worth. Believe you’re worthy whether someone else tells you or not. This way, you relate to people—not just how they make you feel about yourself. Go it alone sometimes. Take time to foster your own interests, ones that nothing and no one can take away. Don’t let them hinge on anyone or anything other than your values and passion. Hold lightly. This one isn’t just about releasing attachments—it’s also about maintaining healthy relationships. Contrary to romantic notions, you are not someone’s other half. You’re separate and whole. You can still hold someone to close to your heart; just remember, if you squeeze too tightly, you’ll both be suffocated. Interact with lots of people. If you limit yourself to one or two relationships they will seem like your lifelines. Everyone needs people, and there are billions on the planet. Stay open to new connections. Accept the possibility your future involves a lot of love whether you cling to a select few people or not. Justify less. I can’t let him go—I’ll be miserable without him. I’d die if I lost her—she’s all that I have. These thoughts reinforce beliefs that are not fact, even if they feel like it. The only way to let go and feel less pain is to believe you’re strong enough to carry on if and when things change. Letting Go of Attachment to the Past Know you can’t change the past. Even if you think about over and over again. Even if you punish yourself. Even if you refuse to accept it. It’s done. The only way to relieve your pain about what happened is to give yourself relief. No one and nothing else can create peace in your head for you. Love instead of fearing. When you hold onto the past, it often has to do with fear: fear you messed up your chance at happiness, or fear you’ll never know such happiness again. Focus on what you love and you’ll create happiness instead of worrying about it. Make now count. Instead of thinking of what you did or didn’t do, the type of person you were or weren’t, do something worthwhile now. Be someone worthwhile now. Take a class. Join a group. Help someone who needs it. Make today so full and meaningful there’s no room to dwell on yesterday. Narrate calmly. How we experience the world is largely a result of how we internalize it. Instead of telling yourself dramatic stories about the past—how hurt you were or how hard it was—challenge your emotions and focus on lessons learned. That’s all you really need from yesterday. Open your mind. We often cling to things, situations or people because we’re comfortable with them. We know how they’ll make us feel, whether it’s happy or safe. Consider that new things, situations and people may affect you the same. The only way to find out is to let go of what’s come and gone. Letting Go of Attachment to Outcomes Practice letting things be. That doesn’t mean you can’t actively work to create a different tomorrow. It just means you make peace with the moment as it is, without worrying that something’s wrong with you or your life, and then operate from a place of acceptance. Question your attachment. If you’re attached to a specific outcome—a dream job, the perfect relationship—you may be indulging an illusion about some day when everything will be lined up for happiness. No moment will ever be worthier of your joy than now because that’s all there ever is. Release the need to know. Life entails uncertainty, no matter how strong your intention. Obsessing about tomorrow wastes your life because there will always be a tomorrow on the horizon. There are no guarantees about how it will play out. Just know it hinges on how well you live today. Serve your purpose now. You don’t need to have x-amount of money in the bank to live a meaningful life right now. Figure out what matters to you, and fill pockets of time indulging it. Audition for community theater. Volunteer with animals. Whatever you love, do it. Don’t wait—do it now. Teach others. It’s human nature to hope for things in the future. Even the most enlightened people fall into the habit from time to time. Remind yourself to stay open to possibilities by sharing the idea with other people. Blog about it. Talk about it. Tweet about it. Opening up helps keep you open. Letting Go of Attachment to Feelings Understand that pain is unavoidable. No matter how well you do everything on this list, or on your own short list for peace, you will lose things that matter and feel some level of pain. But it doesn’t have to be as bad as you think. As the saying goes, pain is inevitable, suffering is optional. Vocalize your feelings. Feel them, acknowledge them, express them, and then let them naturally transform. Even if you want to dwell in anger, sadness or frustration—especially if you feel like dwelling—save yourself the pain and commit to working through them. Write it down. Then toss it out. You won’t always have the opportunity to express your feelings to the people who inspired them. That doesn’t mean you need to swallow them. Write in a journal. Write a letter and burn it. Anything that helps you let go. Xie Xie. It means thank you in Chinese. Fully embrace your happy moments—love with abandon; be so passionate it’s contagious. If a darker moment follows, remember: it will teach you something, and soon enough you’ll be in another happy moment to appreciate. Everything is cyclical. Yield to peace. The ultimate desire is to feel happy and peaceful. Even if you think you want to stay angry, what you really want is to be at peace with what happened or will happen. It takes a conscious choice. Make it. Zen your now. Experience, appreciate, enjoy, and let go to welcome another experience. It won’t always be easy. Sometimes you’ll feel compelled to attach yourself physically and mentally to people and ideas—as if it gives you some sense of control or security. You may even strongly believe you’ll be happy if you struggle to hold onto what you have. That’s OK. It’s human nature. Just know you have the power to choose from moment to moment how you experience things you enjoy: with a sense of ownership, anxiety, and fear, or with a sense of freedom, peace and love. The most important question: what do you choose right now? Ako ne mozes doci SEBI dodji MENI.... Be the change you want to see in the world Između dve devojke decko uvek bira obe. Između dva decka devojka uvek izabere trećeg 'Tragedy should be utilized as a source of strength.'No matter what sort of difficulties, how painful experience is, if we lose our hope, that's our real disaster."—Dalai Lama Odlaganje Prekosutra, da samo prekosutra... Sutra ću početi da mislim na prekosutra. To je jedina mogućnost: danas nikako ne... Ne, danas ništa; ne mogu danas. Zamršena upornost moje objektivne subjektivnosti, san moga stvarnog života, umetnut, iznemoglost prerana i beskrajna, iznemoglost svijeta da se uđe u tramvaj. Ta vrsta duše... Samo prekosutra... Danas bih htio da se pripremim, htio bih da se pripremim, kako bih sutra mogao misliti na idući dan... On je presudan. Već imam nacrtan plan; ali ne, danas ne crtam planove, Sutra je dan planova. Sutra ću sjesti za stol da osvojim svijet; ali svijet ću osvojiti tek prekosutra... Imam želju da zaplačem, imam želju da zaplačem naglo, iznutra... Ne, ne pokušavajte saznati ništa više, to je tajna i neću govoriti. Samo prekosutra... Kad sam bio dijete, cijeli tjedan sam se radovao nedjeljnom cirkusu. Danas me raduje samo nedjeljni cirkus od cijelog tjedna mog djetinjstva. Prekosutra bit ću drugi. Moj život će triumfirati... Sve moje sposobnosti inteligentna, odgojena i praktična čovjeka bit će dekretom sabrane, ali sutrašnjim dekretom. Danas hoću da spavam, a sutra ću sve urediti... Za danas, ima li kakva predstava, koja bi obnovila moje djetinjstvo? Pa čak da i sutra kupim ulaznicu, jer tek prekosutra će biti dobra predstava... Prije ne... Prekosutra ću se latiti poslova, koje ću sutra proučiti. Prekosutra ću konačno biti ono, što danas nikako ne mogu biti. Samo prekosutra. Pospan sam kao izgubljen pas na hladnoći. Veoma sam pospan. Sutra ću ti reći riječi, ili prekosutra, Da, možda jedino prekosutra... Budućnost... Da, budućnost... It's because I like you, I don't want to be with you. It's a complicated emotion. -Finding Nemo IT'S BETTER TO RULE IN HELL THAN TO SERVE IN HEAVEN What goes around comes around, and I hope it hits you twice as hard. Somebody's going to punch you in the face one day and I hope I'm there to watch Kad optimisti potonu sve lađe, on zamisli da su to podmornice:) ono sto je moje - moje je , a sto nije - bice :D ;) Some people want it to happen, some wish it would happen, others make it happen. - Michael Jordan No matter how hard it gets, just keep going because you only fail when you give up. she reminds me of a penny. Two faced & worthless. Apologies mean nothing when the damage is done. good failure prompts better action. Simmons "Happy can make you money, but money can't make you happy." Enemy can only tell people who you are. He can't show them who you are. Only you can do that. It's better to be Absolutely ridiculous than to be Absolutely boring. No one will do it for you. You gotta do it yourself. You're the writer, director, producer and the Star of your own Movie. Don't h8 ppl, you can't be....... just because they have something you want.... a thing called Happiness....... When things go wrong.....don' t go with them. Advice is what we ask for when we already know the answer but wish we didn't. -Erica Jong Be yourself. An original is always worth more than a copy. world's a playground. u know that when you're a kid, but somewhere along the way, everyone forgets it. Peace will not drop from the sky, Dalai Lama 2010 t.o. Put a d*ck in ur ear n f*ck wat u heard. Some people make headlines while others make history. if you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything. Life is a tragedy for those who feel, and a comedy for those who think. Life is like a photograph; we use the negatives to develop. Every human being is the author of his own health or disease. - Buddha Talk is cheap if your actions don't show what you mean. Lies are just truths on drugs. Haters are always jobless & brainless. They waste seconds, minutes, hours, days just to talk about you. FRIENDSHIP PRAYER: May the fleas of a thousand camels infest the crotch of the person who screws up your day and may their arms be to short to scratch....... AMEN. http://www.power1051fm.com/main.html It is better to trust the eyes rather than the ears. Like the moon, come out from behind the clouds! Shine. - Buddha Style is an expression of individualism mixed with charisma I don't hate you, or despise you... I just call you a slut because it describes you. Don't lean on others, because if they fall .... u'll FALL w/ them. What upsets you is not what happens. What upsets you is your response to what happens. Keep reminding yourself that you are in control of you and you can decide exactly how you wish to feel at any point. In the end you'll see who's fake, who's true and who would risk it all just for you. John Gotti “I never lie because I don't fear anyone. You only lie when you're afraid.” Human being is like a television set with millions of channels. Whats LOVE? In math: A problem. In history: A war. In chemistry: A reaction. In art: A heart. In me: U. what we call opinion in the absence of evidence? We call it prejudice. - Michael Crichton I don't care about anything. Why? Because if u don't care about anything, nothing bad will ever happen. - Blake Atkins "Čitalaca je mnogo - onih koji misle malo." - Hariet Martino “If you don’t know where you are going, any road will get you there.” — Lewis Carroll Laughter is not at all a bad beginning for a friendship, and it is far the best ending for one. If all the doors of your life get shut, then its time to use the windows. I have very simple tastes, I am always satisfied with the very best. I have lived in this country. I have fought for it. I have defended its sovereignty and interest, and I will die on its land, and history will judge me and others. The homeland will remain, and people will disappear, and Egypt will always remain, and its flag will always be high. And it is our duty to achieve this with dignity and honor, generation after generation. May God protect this homeland and its people, and peace be upon you, and God's mercy and blessings. HOSNI MUBARAK This is who i am, No One said you had to like it! To make up rumors to hurt @ other's expense truly shows the world you are the one who is wounded. Dont be a dream terrorist and knock others hopes and goals down, build them up, one day you may need that same restoration Beyonce: "Would you run to me if somebody hurt you Even if that somebody was me"? When I'm wit u, we stay up all night. When u're not here, I can't go 2 sleep. Praise God 4 those 2 insomnias! & the difference between them. Expect nothing: be prepared for anything. only people you need in your life are the ones that prove they need you in theirs. We will either find a way, or make one. – Hannibal When you don't care so much of what people say, a lot of things become invisible to you. when u got real ppl around u only positive happens single conversation across the table with a wise man is worth a month's study of books. "If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." - Wayne Dyer Be with someone who knows exactly what they have when they have you, Not someone who will realize it when they've lost you. If you give a sinner ammunition you may be as guilty as the sinner. Take heed. Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none. ~William Shakespeare "Not to know certain things is a great part of wisdom." Hugo Grotius just shut up. there'll never be enough toilet paper to wipe out the bullsh't left on your mouth. Worry is an unhealthy & destructive mental habit & because u can change any habit u can cast worry from your mind I wish people would listen, as much as they talk. Warriors never sleep, they just rest until the next battle There are two worst mistakes in life: 1. Not saying what your heart wanted to say 2. The mistake you learn nothing from. When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on. - Thomas Jefferson Seeing the good in other people improves the chances that they will reveal their better selves. "Most people would rather be certain they're miserable, than risk being happy." - Robert Anthony F.R.I.E.N.D.S: (F)ight for you (R)espect you (I)nvolve you (E)ncourage you (N)eed you (D)eserve you (S)ave you Before you talk, listen. Before you quit, try. Before you judge, see. Before you cry, pray. Don't let anyone put you down. Gravity does that enough. If you're planning to let me go today. Make sure you'll never come back tomorrow. I am the greatest; I said that even before I knew I was. -Muhammad Ali "There is only one success - to be able to spend your life in your own way." - Christopher Morley No one is capable of what you are, so you're the only competition there is in life. The only competition is you There's a thin line between to laugh with and to laugh at- Richard Pryor You're gonna catch a cold from the ice inside your soul. We need to use things and love people instead of loving Things and Using People tri vrste neprijatelja: neprijatelj, neprijatelj prijatelja i prijatelj neprijatelja... Izgubio si dijamant,dok si sakupljao kamenje. "Ono što hoće, mudrac to traži u sebi. Prost čovek to traži kod drugih." "Biti pametan znači razlikovati istine koje treba reći od onih koje treba prećutati." - Antoine de Rivarol

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