Living the way you want is not selfish. Expecting others to live the way you want them to, is. When something bad happens you have three choices. You can either let it define you. Let it destroy you, or you can let it strengthen you. Be more concerned with your character than your reputat ion, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are. Dont worry about me or what I do. What happens in my life has nothing to do with you. So keep your mouth shut and stop talkin' shit. Chin up kid, they'd kill to see you fall. Some people are like clouds. When they disappear, it's a brighter day. Don't confuse my attitude with my personality; my personality is who I am, my attitude depends on who you are. Never mistake my silence for weakness, nobody plans a murder out loud. I'm not quiet or shy, I just choose to keep what I'm thinking to myself. Don't judge me until you know me, don't underestimate me until you challenge me and don't talk about me until you've talked to me. The second you stop caring about what other people think is the second you can do whatever you want. How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours. There are things that we don't want to happen- but have to accept, things we don't want to know- but have to learn, and people we can't live without- but have to let go. Sometimes you gotta let things go, for better things to arrive. Do something right, no one remembers. Do something wrong, no one forgets. Beauty isn't about having a pretty face, it's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul. A teenager once asked an old man, ''in a relationship, which is more important: to love or to be loved?'' Then he replied, ''Which is more important to a bird? The left wing or the right?'' We're all in the same game; just different levels. Dealing with the same hell; just different devils. Right now, someone you haven't met is out there wondering what it would be like to meet someone like you. Do not walk behind me; I may not lead. Just walk beside me and be my friend. -Albert Camus A relationship without trust is like a phone without service. All you do is play games. You can never make the same mistake twice, because the second time you make it, it's not a mistake, it's a choice. When a women says ''what?'' it's now because she didn't hear you. She's giving you a chance to change what you said. I am not beautiful like you, I am beautiful like me. A day without laughter,is a day wasted. - Charlie Chaplin Envy; Blowing out the other person's candle will not make you's shine brighter.