Love comes First. When the power of love overcomes the love of power peace will be. Learn to get in touch with silence within yourself, and know that everything in this life has purpose. There are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from. Love means devotion, caring and happiness to a girl, in that order. forgive everyone for everything. Make peace with your past, so it won't mess up the present. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we're here we should dance.