Carly O'Connor

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If you want to come into my life the door is open .. If you want to get out of my life the door is open .. Just don't stand in the doorway .. You're blocking traffic! "Stop wasting your time with those who are committed to misunderstanding you." it's not what you gather, but what you scatter, that tells what kind of life you are living ‎"Your soul is often a battlefield, upon which your reason and your judgment wage war against passion and your appetite. " "Don't let yesterday use up too much of today." ~Cherokee Proverb After the game, the king and the pawn go into the same box. - Italian Proverb "No need to worry when a relationship is broken... it happens... the only danger is that nobody comes forward to mend it... So just take the first step and mend it... don't wait, life may not give you another chance." What you think about me does not affect me, besides it's just your way of acknowledging me indirectly! (Tylisa) You don't "think" you were in love. If you were in love with someone, truly in love, you will know without a single doubt in your mind. Because it changes you. It consumes you. Trust me, if you were in love with someone, you couldn't dare question it. i don't know why we all hang on to something we know we're better of letting go. it's like we're scared to lose what we don't really have. some of us say we'd rather have that then nothing at all, but the truth is; to have it half way is harder then not having it all. “When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.”—Diane Von Furstenberg The trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more. -Erica Jong A lion does not turn around when a small dog barks - African Proverb #Pisces generally will not voluntarily put themselves in a difficult situation if it somehow can otherwise be avoided. #Pisces are the strongest believers in True Love. Sometimes, the people who don't talk to you are the ones who really want to. (stole this status from Ms Taylor) Humans need love. I mean, really need it. Even the guy who’d been divorced a few times, he was still looking. People are addicted to love! Whatever they think it is, they all want it, talk about it, look for it, etc. Love is not going out of style. There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go. So here's a piece of advice. Don't force it.. Let go when you have tried too much.. give up when love isn’t enough.. and move on when things are not like before. It’s not about giving up, it’s about learning to let go. There is a very good chance that there is someone out there that will love you way more. Excellence has always been achieved by those who dared believe that something inside them is superior to circumstances” Believe in yourself...... Two mistakes you can make with me. 1. Thinking you know everything about me and 2. Underestimating me! Love can be unexpected. When you least expect it, a quick twist of fate can cause seemingly opposites to collide and create a memorable Love story. Keep your heart open and abandon your fears. There is no need to worry about what you cannot control -- "Nobody can take away your pain, so don't let anyone take away your happiness." Reality is totally different from fiction. In fiction, things need to make sense P. Coelho “Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one’s definition of your life; define yourself.” ― Robert Frost Sometimes you will never know the true value of a moment until it becomes a memory. I never knew a luh, luh-luh, a Love like this. Gotta be Somethin' for me to write this. Queen, I ain't seen you in a minute, Wrote this letter, and finally decide to send it. Signed, Sealed, Delivered for us to grow together. Love has no limit, let's spend it slow Forever" - Common “Your task is not to seek love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” ~Rumi We don't need to explain our love. We only need to show it. A lovely relationship not only depends on the spoken words, but also depends on understanding the unspoken words. in the end we only regret the chances we didn't take, the relationships we were too afraid to have, and the decisions we waited too long to make “Beauty is how you feel inside, and it reflects in your eyes. It is not something physical.”―Sophia Loren "The loudest one in the room, is the weakest one in the room." American Gangster Those wounded in love, unlike those wounded in armed conflict, are neither victims nor torturers. They chose something that is part of life, and so they have to accept both the agony and the ecstasy of their choice. And those who have never been wounded in love will never be able to say: “I have lived”. Because they haven’t. Transform your anxiety into ambition and focus on what's really important. "The prettiest smiles hide the deepest scars. The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears. The kindest hearts have felt the most pain." - Janet Norton Speculating other relationships will only waste time and attention needed for your own. Do not mistake observation for gossip. Observation is paying attention to the actions and dynamic of something over time and walking away with information that will better your next experience. Gossip is sharing assumptions of brief experiences you've had with something based upon your own insecurities and biases. Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss things. Small minds discuss people. if you truly want to be with a person.. listen to your heart and not all the voices from all the people around you... ♥ Life will give you whatever experience is most helpful for the evolution of your consciousness. How do you know this is the experience you need? Because this is the experience you are having at this moment.--Eckhart Tolle The most effective answer to an insult is silence. "Listen carefully to how a person speaks about other people to you. Usually this is how they will speak about you to other people...." LADIES' TIP: Quit committing without a commitment conversation - commitment requires consent. Constantly committing yourself to someone who isn't committed to you is like being a serial intern ... unpaid. Pleasantries. Laughter will always be the best medicine, silence will always be the best revenge & love will always be all you need Always keep your heels, head, and standards HIGH. Things can either make you or break you. The hammer that break glass can shape steel...its up to you to be '' the glass" or "the steel". Life's all about moments of impact, and how they change our lives forever. “Knowing what you don't want is all you need to start the adventure of a lifetime.”―AJ Leon "Being Silent is a Very Powerful Tool, For making Others Feel for Their Mistakes." MK "Most of our troubles are due to our passionate desire for and attachment to things that we misapprehend as enduring entities." ~Dalai Lama Forgive Yourself and Change Your Choices You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to the things you do not want to feel.--Unknown Be careful who you blame Pisces Don't make promises when you're joyful. Don't reply when you're sad. Don't make decisions when you're angry. “Everybody deserves second chances, but not for the same mistakes…” --unknown “Understand that the past cannot and will not take you down. If it didn’t then, it certainly can’t now.”―Maggie Lyon “Sometimes, you just can’t have what you want when you want it. But that doesn’t mean you can never have it. Everything takes place at the right time. It’s not NO. It’s just NOT NOW....” It was Love at first Sight...... And I wish I never met her- Carl Thomas "Judge nothing, you will be happy. Forgive everything, you will be happier. Love everything, you will be happiest." -Sri Chinmoy You can no more blame your circumstance for your character than you can the mirror for your looks. ~unknown Don't make anyone fall for you, if you don't plan on being there to catch them. - Lisa Kenny “If you judge people, you have no time to love them.”―Mother Teresa "If it's still in your mind, it is worth taking the risk." Paulo Coelho Sometimes, memories are the reason why we can't move on. Falling in love is very easy, staying in love is a challenge, letting go is hard, and moving on is the hardest. Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end. Life is about trusting your feelings and taking chances, losing and finding happiness, appreciating the memories, learning from the past, and realizing people change "The grass is always greener where you water it." ~Unknown “We do not see things as they are, we see things as we are.”—Anaïs Nin Don’t let anyone bring out a reaction that wouldn’t match the person you want to be. "You can't have a better tomorrow if you're thinking about yesterday." -- Charles Kettering, Inventor Forget mistakes. Forget failure. Forget everything except what you are going to do now and do it. Today is your lucky day.-- Will Durant If you really want something, you will find a way.... if you just don't know, then you will always find another excuse ~ follow your heart... where is it leading you? dare to go after what you deserve. With change, comes risk Our thoughts affect us on so many levels, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and physically. --Annette Hennekens Before you agree to do anything that might add even the smallest amount of stress to your life, ask yourself: What is my truest intention? Give yourself time to let a yes resound within you. When it’s right, I guarantee that your entire body will feel it.--Oprah Winfrey " When you are up in life, your friends get to know who you are. But when you are down in life, you get to know who your friends are". “Finding something to be glad about, to be grateful for, opens our mind to the idea that happiness can be found in any circumstance.”―Lisa Cypers Kamen Adjustment and Compromise is crucial in relationships.Adjust when someone wants to be with you & Compromise when u want to be with someone. "Don’t stay with a partner out of guilt or because you’re trying to be a nice person. In the end, it never, ever works. You do no favors for the other person — or yourself" Old ways won't open up new doors. "Curiosity is one of the great secrets of happiness." ~Bryant H. McGill Never apologize for showing feelings. When you do so, you apologize for the truth. “Feelings or emotions are the universal language and are to be honored. They are the authentic expression of who you are at your deepest place.” ~Judith Wright Tell me it cant be done and i will do it ~ Tell me the goal is too high and I will reach it ~ Place an obstacle in front of me and I will soar over it ~ Challenge me,Dare me, or even defy me... But do NOT underestimate me ~ Remember, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE It is never the end ; just the beginning of a new chapter. "A man falls in love through his eyes, a woman through her ears." "Everyone you meet comes with baggage, find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack" “Love yourself first and everything falls into line.”―Lucille Ball "Trust your own instinct. Your mistakes might as well be your own, instead of someone else's." ~Billy Wilder Love who you wanna, forgive if you can, laugh all the time. . . Learn to let go and and experience the beauty of the moment "Sometimes people have to cry out all their tears, to make room for a heart full of smiles." ~ Anonymous Once in a while, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale .... ♥ ~ Life doesn't give you the people you want, IT GIVES YOU THE PEOPLE YOU NEED; to love you, to hate you, to make you, to break you, & to make you the person you WERE MEANT TO BE .... ♥ ~ • lynnshaider • Friends are those rare people who ask how you are and then wait to hear the answer.--Author Unknown It's not what you do, it's how you do it. It's not what you see, it's how you look at it. It's not how your life is, it's how you live it. "Let us not love with words or speech... but with actions and truth" ~ C.S. Lewis "Those who are not looking for happiness are the most likely to find it, because those who are searching forget that the surest way to be happy is to seek happiness for others." MLK Jr Pretending to be happy when you are in pain is just an example how strong you are as a person. "Sometimes questions are more important than answers." ~Nancy Willard What you permit, you promote. What you allow, you encourage. What you condone, you own. “Never regret. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it’s experience.”—Victoria Holt "Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones, as the wind extinguishes candles and fans fires." -Francois de La Rochefoucauld Paulo Coelho Only two things can reveal life’s great secrets: suffering and love Let things happen naturally, and you'll notice how much more happier you'll be when they happen unexpectedly Animals are such agreeable friends, they ask no questions, they pass no criticisms ~ George Eliot There's a difference between interest and commitment. When you're interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit. When you're committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results. "I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn't matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together." -- Julia Roberts There is no instinct like that of the heart. Lord Byron "if you have to ask if it's love - it's not." "Don't send me flowers when I'm dead. If you like me, send them while I'm alive." -Brian Clough For you see, each day I love you more; today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow. Your voice is my favorite sound, and your name is my favorite noun Never allow space for someone else to be there for the person you should be there for. Dance is the hidden language of the soul. ~Martha Graham Whatever words we utter should be chosen with care for people will hear them and be influenced by them for good or ill. Buddha always do what leads to greater love. Anything worth having is definitely worth waiting for! “A kiss may ruin a human life.” Oscar Wilde You can only EXPECT what you ACCEPT ! DT Don’t worry about what you can’t control and you may liberate yourself. -Unknown. Love me without Fear the lesson is how you move forward. Sometimes the wrong choices take us to the right places. "Most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition." SJ "U can't start the next chapter of ur life, if u keep re-reading the last one" Better to lose a lover, than to love a loser. Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you. - Dr. Wayne Dyer I dont believe in 'good things come to those who wait.' I believe that good things come to those who want something so bad they cant sit still. Ashton Kutcher Wallace Smith "Know when your part in someone's story is over." "Tell me and I will forget, show me and I will remember, involve me and I will understand" Chinese Proverb Where the heart is willing, it will find a thousand ways. Where it is unwilling, it will find a thousand excuses. - Arlen Price “The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.” Paulo Coelho "Every circumstance is the result of a choice. We need to check our choices instead of complaining about the circumstance." #Pisces willingness to try anything is a turn on for many! Ha! "Pisces when in love will give you everything even the kitchen sink" DON'T EVER GIVE UP! If you can’t fly ~ then run If you can’t run ~ then walk If ...you can’t walk ~ then crawl But whatever you do… You MUST keep moving forward. Even good people, do dumb things. I admit, I'm not perfect. But, I have a good heart. When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on so long in the first place. -Unknown If you can't pick someone up when they're down, they surely don't need your help to pick them apart! Paulo Coelho We are what we do, and not what we think we should do "Love is when someone knows every single detail about you. Not because you remind them, but because they pay attention." I don't want to end up simply having visited this world.” Mary Oliver "Happiness can only be found if you free yourself from all other distractions." ~Saul Bellows "Ignoring the inevitable doesn't make it go away" ~ MVoltaggio “I'm looking for love. Real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, consuming, can't-live-without-each-other love.” ~ Carrie Bradshaw (Sex & the City) There are no rules. Just follow your heart.- Robin Williams “You got nothing to lose. You don't lose when you lose fake friends.” Joan Jett "Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.” The brain is not, and cannot be, the sole or complete organ of thought and feeling.- Antoinette Brown Blackwell It is wisdom to believe the heart.- George Santayana Trust your hunches. ... Hunches are usually based on facts filed away just below the conscious level. Warning! Do not confuse your hunches with wishful thinking. This is the road to disaster. - Dr. Joyce Brothers "We are all a little weird and life's a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love." — Dr. Seuss Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea about their sufferings. Paulo Coelho "If you are never scared, embarrassed, or hurt, it means you never take chances." ~Julia Soul "I want you on my team! So does everyone else!" You cannot avoid pain, but you can chose to overcome it P. Coehlo Even when you think a Pisces isn't watching we are ALWAYS watching, when you think we aren't listening, we're ALWAYS listening Life is like an Onion You peel off one layer at a time and sometimes you cry. “To get something you never had, you have to do something you’ve never done.” ~Unknown “Every day may not be good, but there’s something good in every day.” ~Unknown "In the end we only regret the chances we didn't take, the relationships we were too afraid to have, & the decisions we took too long to make" - Lauryn Hill "Just because you fail once, doesn't mean you're gonna fail at everything." M Monroe "How can a woman be expected to be happy with a man who insists on treating her as if she were a perfectly normal human being.” "Heartbreak is life educating us." George Bernard Shaw People will hate you, rate you, break you and shake you. How strong you stand is what makes you. “Trusting our intuition often saves us from disaster.” Anne Wilson Schaef "How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard. "From the movie Annie Love is not blind – It sees more and not less, but because it sees more it is willing to see less. Lust is easy. Love is hard. Like is most important. " he only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take." Anthony Robbins Find out who you are and do it on purpose.--Dolly Parton When you're up, your friends know who you are. When you're down, you know who your friends are. ~ Anonymous “It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else's eyes.” "I am good, but not an angel. I do sin, but I am not the devil. I am just a small girl in a big world trying to find someone to love." — Marilyn Monroe If you don't get everything you want, think of the things you don't get that you don't want. Oscar Wilde The more sand that has escaped from the hourglass of our lives, the clearer we should see through it. John-Paul Sartre "I don't entirely approve of some of the things I have done, or am, or have been. But I'm me. God knows, I'm me," E. Taylor "If you ask, and you believe. . . someone who wants to help you will hear you; and you shall receive." When you have no words for what you are feeling, its love Fashion can be bought. Style one must possess. ~Edna Woolman Chase "People don't resist change, they resist being changed." Changes only happen when we go against everything we're used to doing "Lower your voice and strengthen your argument" "If some is good, more is better" "Give credit. Take blame." "Never explain yourself. Your friends don’t need it, and your enemies won’t believe it." There are things known and there are things unknown, and in between are the doors. -- Jim Morrison "Never look down on anyone unless you're helping him up". "Trying to forget someone you love, is like trying to remember someone you never knew " "We always ignore the ones who adore us, and adore the ones who ignore us. Its hard to pretend you love someone when you don't, but its even harder to pretend that you don't love someone when you really do." " Loving you was my favorite mistake" "we forgive ourselves and others when earnest mistakes are made because everyday presents new challenges and we are not always our best in every moment." The most important thing in communication is to hear what isn't being said. ~Peter F. Drucker The first step to getting the things you want out of life is this: Decide what you want. "Even if I knew that tomorrow the world would go to pieces, I would still plant my apple tree." MLK "...one day you're going to wake up and realize how much you care about her and when that day comes she'll be waking up next to the guy who already knew...." Paulo Coelho "To enjoy the rainbow, first enjoy the rain" "I'm a hopeless romantic and I won't stop until I get it right"- Halle Berry My thoughts are free to go anywhere, but it's surprising how often they head in your direction." -Unknown “Be brave. Take risks. Nothing can substitute experience.” "My best dreams and worst nightmares have the same people in them" Philippos "We only fall in love with the people we want to fall in love with us. "- Philippos "Haters are confused admirers who can't understand why everybody loves you" “Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.” -PC Accept me without change "When you feel like you can’t be yourself around someone…maybe you shouldn’t be with/around them." JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN, DOES'NT MEAN YOU SHOULD... The most important things are the hardest to say, because words diminish them. "Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it meaning." -Unknown We are not the same persons this year as last; nor are those we love. It is a happy chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person. ~W. Somerset Maugham Sometimes who you are is not what you want everyone to see..... "Letting go isn’t the end of the world; it’s the beginning of a new life." ~Unknown Everything I'm not, made me everything I am." People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you will know exactly what to do. "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." -Maya Angelou “I know that you believe you understand what you think I said, but I'm not sure you realize that what you heard is not what I meant.”-Robert McCloskey “Tears are words the heart can't express” Every saint has a past and every sinner has a future.-Oscar Wilde "You don't need a man, you need a champion." "Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself." "I hate the word CUTE! You know I hate the word CUTE. Do you really wanna be CUTE? Carly there is nothing CUTE about you!" B. Chacon "If you get up one more time than you fall, you will make it through." -Chinese Proverb Happiness is not having what you want, but wanting what you have "Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there." “It is a curious thought, but it is only when you see people looking ridiculous that you realize just how much you love them.” Agatha Christie "I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." -Marilyn Monroe" ♥ “It is better to be hated for who you are, than to be loved for someone you are not." "Remember that sometimes the biggest and best discoveries are made in challenging and tragic times, for it is one of the few moments in our lives that we are truly able to learn about ourselves and the people around us." M.W. "When you relinquish the desire to control your future, you obtain happiness" "Run girl ill ruin ur life" -Paris Paul "Don't make someone a priority if to them you're only an option" "I am not a great believer in fairy tales. Every woman should fight hard for her own happy endings. Although occasionally it is nice to wake up as a princess" -Donatella Versace" "Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear. Its not about finding someone that's perfect, it's about learning to love an imperfect person" If there is no struggle, there is no progress "Beautiful moments of internal struggles force my soul to be uplifted" "We can love completely without complete understanding." -unkown "Re-examine all you have been told...Dismiss what insults your Soul." -Walt Whitman "Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday." "Be who you are and say what you feel. 'Cause those that matter don't mind and those that mind don't matter"-Says Dr. Seuss "To the world you may be just somebody, but to somebody you may just be the world." EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW how to fall in love without losing herself.. EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW when to try harder ... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY... A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age.... ***MAYA ANGELOU*** Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending." A kiss can be a comma, a question mark or an exclamation point. That's a basic spelling that every woman should know. "Life consists not in holding good cards but in playing those you hold well" "You have to take risks. We will only understand the miracle of life fully when we allow the unexpected to happen.”-Paulo Coehlo "In the end it's not going to matter how many breaths you took, but how many moments took your breath away" If they can't get close enough to hurt you, then they're not close enough to love you The cure for anything is salt water - sweat, tears, or the sea. You have to look with your heart cause whats invisible is what matter

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